Being single used to mean nobody wanted you, now it means you're pretty, sexy and you're taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you to spend it with

-Sex and the City

I believe there are three types of women

1. Those who don't want to be alone
Being single and alone translates to being sad and unwanted to thiswoman. The thought of having a man in their life fulfills them. Sadly, they are the ones who usually get heart broken

2. The woman who thinks she doesnt need a man
She is the one who believes men should not be given that power over a woman, and believes she can be her own man.

3. The woman who wants a little bit of both and a little bit of herself. She wants the man and theLife she has created for herself but she doesnt want those two things take over her life.

Our history dictated that a woman needed a man, over time, amended history dictated that a woman be independent, and in our present time, we are trying to figure out a way to make those two work without sounding too feminist it becomes obnoxious or sound too independent making us seem too ignorant for our own good.

Life she has created for herself but she doesnt want those two things take over her life.
Our history dictated that a woman needed a man, over time, amended history dictated that a woman be independent, and in our present time, we are trying to figure out a way to make those two work without sounding too feminist it becomes obnoxious or sound too independent making us seem too ignorant for our own good.

So what is acceptable?

Being your own man?
Being dependent?
Wanted the best of both worlds?
I honestly don't know...
Let's be honest, our society will always change the rules depending on what's trending
For example, if more actresses are playing lead roles in award winning productions, we are all about being your own woman, if a lot of romance is in the air, we allwant a man, and when all is well, a little bit of both sounds great.
So ladies, it's not wrong to want to be your own man, history has made it clear that women weren't expected to succeed, but we did,
Its also not wrong to want to depend on your man, if he makes you feel like a queen and gives you what you need,its hard to not want to just be taken care of by him and just enjoy what you have, and it definitely is not wrong towant it both ways.
If you can have the best of both worlds, then have it
Just remember to live, love and laugh with whatever you choose to do.
It is your world after all.